Be sure you won’t have to chase or drag him.
Published in · 3 min read · Sep 27, 2021
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When my partner and I first met, I could tell he was interested in me because he always initiated dates and was consistent. After a few months, I could tell he was falling for me because we spent all the time together and, well, he said “I love you.” Now, after almost two years, I can tell he’s completely smitten.
Besides the gorgeous engagement ring I’m wearing, I’ve noticed many things that show his love and attraction for me. After doing further research, I can confirm there are a few tale-tell signs of smittenness you can observe in a man.
Needless to say, you should be with someone who is compatible with you and whom you also want. But, all else being equal, marry a man who’s all in with you.
Here are 4 clear signs:
The smittenness is visible in his body language. His eyes beam when they meet yours — his pupils seem to turn into a heart shape. He can’t help but smile at you endearingly.
When you’re out together, his attention is focused on you. He doesn’t see any other woman but you. He looks happy, relaxed, and excited. His face seems to soften when he sees you as his body releases its stress.
When a man is head-over-heels for you, he’s always around you — you can’t fake this sign. He always finds reasons to meet you and be near to you. Spending time with you is at the top of his list.
If you can’t see each other in person yet, he will be in regular contact with you and will leave you no doubt that he’s interested in you. When you’re in the same room, his body language will naturally point towards you. You won’t have to wonder about his intention with you because he shows up for the relationship every day.
He takes you out; he holds your hand in public; he talks to everyone about you; he introduces you to his friends and family with pride in his eyes.